Youth & Young Adult · Ages 12–25

Youth & Young Adult Mental Health in Calgary & Okotoks

Counselling for teens and young adults who are carrying more than they let on — with Carissa Cochrane, CCC, in Calgary and Dr. Jennie Johnson, PhD, Registered Psychologist, in Okotoks. In person, or virtually anywhere in Alberta.

Registered Psychologist (CAP) & Canadian Certified Counsellor (CCPA)
Neurodiversity-affirming, evidence-based care
In person & virtual across Alberta

Somewhere between childhood and adulthood, the questions get harder. Who am I when nobody's watching? Why does everyone else seem to have it figured out? What happens if I let people down?

Teens and young adults are managing real pressure — school, friendships, performance, family, identity, and a future that keeps being described as urgent. Most of them handle it by getting very good at appearing fine. Counselling gives them one hour where they don't have to.

A quiet counselling room at Flutterby Psychology with a soft couch and warm lighting

What youth and young adult counselling can help with

  • Anxiety, worry, and the pressure to perform
  • Low mood, motivation, and feeling flat or disconnected
  • Perfectionism and fear of failing or disappointing people
  • Friendships, belonging, conflict, and social media
  • Identity, confidence, and figuring out who they are
  • Emotional regulation and big reactions that feel out of proportion
  • School, exams, and the transition to post-secondary or work
  • Family stress, separation, and change at home
  • ADHD, autism, and other neurodivergent experiences
  • Grief, loss, and difficult or frightening experiences

How we work with teens and young adults

This isn't child therapy with older clients, and it isn't adult therapy scaled down. Young people are more capable than they're often given credit for, and less certain than they let on, so the work has to hold both.

  • They set the pace. Nobody is made to talk about something before they're ready.
  • Their goals, not only yours. A teen who has their own reason to be there engages very differently from one who was sent.
  • Practical, not just insight. Regulation skills, sleep, self-talk, boundaries — things that change a Tuesday, not only a worldview.
  • Strengths first. We're neurodiversity-affirming: differences in wiring are part of who someone is, not a problem to be corrected.

Teenagers can tell instantly whether an adult is genuinely interested in them or just trying to manage them. Everything else depends on getting that part right.

Where parents fit in

For younger teens, parents are part of the picture — we'll talk with you about how to support your teen at home, and what's helping. At the same time, a teen needs to know the room is theirs, or they'll say what they think will be repeated. We're clear with everyone from the first session about what stays private and what doesn't, so nobody is left guessing. Safety always comes first.

For young adults 18 and over, sessions are theirs. Family can be involved if they want that, and not if they don't.

What to expect

We start with a free 15-minute consult — often with a parent for younger teens, or directly with the young person themselves. It's a low-stakes way to ask questions and get a feel for whether it fits. From there, the first full session is about understanding what's going on and what they'd want to be different. No one has to arrive with it all worked out.

Who it's for

Young people aged 12 to 25 — in junior high, high school, post-secondary, working, or somewhere in between — and the parents who've noticed something has shifted and aren't sure what to do next.

Working with an athlete specifically? Dr. Jennie also offers sport psychology for performance pressure, injury, and confidence. For children 12 and under, see child psychology.

Where to find this

Available in Calgary & Okotoks

Carissa sees youth and young adults at our Calgary office; Dr. Jennie sees them in Okotoks. Virtual sessions are available anywhere in Alberta.

Youth & young adult questions

Common questions

My teen says they don't want to go. What then?
That's a very common starting point. We don't push. The first session is about whether it feels tolerable to come back, and a lot of teens who arrive reluctantly decide for themselves that it's worth continuing.
How much will I be told as the parent?
We set that out clearly with you and your teen in the first session, so nobody is guessing. Teens need to know the room is theirs for therapy to work, and parents need enough to support them. There are limits, and safety always comes first.
My child is 12 — is this the right service, or child psychology?
Twelve sits in both, and that's deliberate. It depends on the young person rather than the birthday. If they'd rather talk than play, this is usually the better fit. If you're unsure, the free consult is the fastest way to sort it out.
Can a young adult book for themselves?
Yes. Adults 18 and over book directly and no parent needs to be involved unless they want one to be.
Do you offer virtual sessions for teens and young adults?
Yes, anywhere in Alberta — which helps a lot for students away at school and for anyone juggling shifts, practices, or commuting.